{"id":1130,"date":"2014-07-30T05:36:03","date_gmt":"2014-07-30T12:36:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/?p=1130"},"modified":"2014-08-04T06:32:52","modified_gmt":"2014-08-04T13:32:52","slug":"living-in-the-spontaneous","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/living-in-the-spontaneous\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Too Busy?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0.jpg\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"1135\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/living-in-the-spontaneous\/calendar_0\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0.jpg?fit=2560%2C1920&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"2560,1920\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"Calendar_0\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0.jpg?fit=950%2C712&amp;ssl=1\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright wp-image-1135\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0-650x487.jpg?resize=376%2C282\" alt=\"Calendar_0\" width=\"376\" height=\"282\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0.jpg?resize=650%2C487&amp;ssl=1 650w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0.jpg?resize=950%2C712&amp;ssl=1 950w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/Calendar_0.jpg?w=2160&amp;ssl=1 2160w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 376px) 100vw, 376px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re like my wife and I, there are events on your family calendar to which you have committed. It includes date nights, birthday parties, weddings, etc. Personally, while I see the value of these planned events, I appreciate a calendar that isn\u2019t overwhelmingly full and has capacity for down time. This capacity creates space for spontaneity.<\/p>\n<p>One of my favorite events are ones that never appear on my calendar. I LOVE IT when someone will text and say, <em>\u201cDo you guys want to meet tonight at ______?\u201d What are you doing in the next couple of hours? Do you want to meet our family for yogurt?<\/em> I find spontaneous events to be natural, fun, and low stress.<\/p>\n<p>I recently heard that term spontaneous in a different context \u2014 spontaneous ministry, and it has had me thinking. <strong>Some of the most natural, fun, and low stress ministry opportunities are those that happen naturally. <\/strong>You don\u2019t plan them for months. You don\u2019t put them on your calendar in the ever-decreasing white space of time. Rather, they just \u201chappen.\u201d In my experience, there are two things that I think are critical to engage in spontaneous ministry \u2014 capacity and care.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Capacity<\/strong>. If your time is so full of events and non-spontaneous ministry opportunities, you lack capacity for spontaneous ministry opportunities. This requires saying \u201cno\u201d to more things so that there is room to say \u201cyes\u201d to the right things.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Care<\/strong>. Spontaneous ministry happens when you\u2019re aware of those in need around you. You can\u2019t live a self-centered life and expect to enter into spontaneous ministry. This requires walking through life with a heart open for opportunities.<\/p>\n<p><em>As you look at your own ministry life, is it full of planned programs or do you have capacity for spontaneity?<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re like my wife and I, there are events on your family calendar to which you have committed. It includes date nights, birthday parties, weddings, etc. Personally, while I see the value of these planned events, I appreciate a calendar that isn\u2019t overwhelmingly full and has capacity for down time. This capacity creates space [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","advanced_seo_description":"","jetpack_seo_html_title":"","jetpack_seo_noindex":false,"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[31],"tags":[10,3,6],"class_list":["post-1130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-main","tag-cell-ministry","tag-family","tag-life"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pzg9k-ie","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[{"id":1090,"url":"https:\/\/jonplotner.com\/v1\/maybe-its-time-to-layoff-a-few-circus-jugglers\/","url_meta":{"origin":1130,"position":0},"title":"Maybe It&#8217;s Time to Layoff a Few Circus Jugglers","author":"Jon Plotner","date":"February 16, 2013","format":false,"excerpt":"I am confronted with this issue every single day of my life. 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